The dating scene can be exciting and romantic. But it can also be a dangerous landscape for single women.

The rise of online dating apps, social media interactions, and casual encounters has increased opportunities for connection. But also heightened the risks of deception, exploitation, manipulation, violence, and abuse.

Many women enter the dating scene with hopes of enjoying a fun and positive experience, and perhaps develop a healthy relationship that leads to marriage—only to find themselves blindsided by encounters with men who harbor deeply ingrained misogynistic attitudes and beliefs, often rooted in Red Pill ideology.

Whereas dating should be used as a light-hearted activity to get to know a person, foster companionship with the opposite sex, and explore the possibility of entering into a serious relationship (which hopefully leads to marriage), Red Pill men use dating as a tool to exert power over women.

Instead of approaching dating with a mindset of mutual respect and genuine connection, Red Pill men often approach dating with a mindset of engaging in manipulative tactics, mind games, power-plays, and disrespectful behavior—leaving unsuspecting women feeling confused, hurt, upset and devalued.

The stark contrast between the anticipation of a pleasant date and the reality of encountering such toxic attitudes can be jarring and disheartening, making the dating landscape feel like a minefield of potential emotional harm.

Women think that they are “going on a date.”

But Red Pill men think that they are going to war against women.

There are a number of abusive strategies that Red Pill men use to win this war against women. One of these strategies is testing women.

These strategies also known as “sh*t tests,” are designed to assess a woman’s compliance, vulnerability, or submissiveness. For example, they may provoke a woman with backhanded compliments, challenge her boundaries (especially her sexual boundaries), or intentionally create scenarios to see how she reacts under pressure.

The underlying aim is to maintain power and gauge her willingness to conform to their expectations. These tests are often subtle, cloaked in humor or casual remarks, but their intent is to undermine the woman’s confidence and establish a dynamic where the man feels in control.

Such behavior can leave women feeling confused, emotionally manipulated, and insecure, as they navigate a relationship built on unequal footing and power games rather than mutual respect.

While women go on dates to get to know a man better, have a mutually enjoyable experience, and explore the possibility of entering into a serious relationship that leads to marriage—Red Pill men are going on dates to use testing strategies to humiliate women, “humble” them, degrade them, intentionally offend them, inconvenience them, cause them mental distress and emotional pain, violate their boundaries, and put them in compromising (often sexually compromising) situations.

One common form of testing women is subtly or aggressively testing a woman’s sexual boundaries to see if she will fold under pressure.

Red Pill men claim that they put women through sexual tests in order to see if a woman is sexually pure, “wife material,” has a moral backbone, and is worthy of being invested in or taken seriously.

The truth is that Red Pill men test women because they view women as inferior, and they have a dehumanizing and objectifying view of women. They see women as adversaries (enemies) to be conquered, and all interactions with women (from the moment they approach you, and throughout the dating process) are part of this war that they are determined to win through various Red Pill dating (warfare) strategies.

One Red Pill dating strategy that is becoming more common is men inviting women out on dates, and then pretending that they left their wallet at home, lost their credit card, or don’t have enough money to pay for the date. See the screenshot below.

This strategy is employed to manipulate the woman into paying for the date and turn an appropriate cultural expectation (that the man, who initiated the date with the woman, pays for the date) upside down and flip the dynamic so that the woman starts off the dating process paying for things and providing financially for the man.

If you are looking at this testing strategy as some kind of harmless “50-50” scenario, and saying that there’s nothing wrong with women paying for a date, you don’t understand the psychological power-play that is going on here and I need you to get out of la-la-land immediately.

For starters, a man pursuing a woman under the guise of being romantically interested in her, and then inviting her out on a date and pretending that he cannot pay for the date that he invited her on in order to deceive her into footing the bill is manipulation, and manipulation is abusive.

In just about every culture on the planet, when a man pursues a woman and invites her out, he pays for it and financially provides for the experience because he is the one who initiated it. This dynamic gives the man the opportunity to demonstrate that he is willing and able to serve and provide for the woman. But serving and providing for a woman, are two things that Red Pill men do not believe in. In fact, they are staunchly against serving and providing for a woman, and consider it “simping” or being a “beta male.”

Red Pill ideology seeks to turn this dynamic (of men serving and providing for a woman) on its head, and flip the dynamic so that women are serving them in an one-sided manner and providing for them with no mutuality. Red Pill men enjoy putting women in predicaments where they feel pressured to pay for things that the man should be paying for (for example, a first date that the man initiated).

Another reason why Red Pill men test women by trying to manipulate them into paying for the first date, is to see if a woman is a “gold digger.”

Remember, the Manosphere promotes a misogynistic false narrative that American women are gold diggers. However, the data actually paints the complete total opposite picture: that American women are typically financially independent, work full-time jobs whether they are single or married, split the bills with their husbands, rarely get alimony or child support, and in Black American women’s case…are often the main breadwinners.

The notion that American women are gold diggers can be easily blown to smithereens by empirical data. The fact that this negative stereotype exists shows that the Manosphere does not value truth, facts, or evidence, like most cults.

Nevertheless, Red Pill men have been indoctrinated to view and dehumanize American women as gold diggers who seek to use them for their money, by having them pay for dates.

Red Pill men ignore that men paying for dates is a cultural and societal norm because men are usually the ones who approach first, and initiate dates. Many American women expect men to pay for the first date not because they are “gold diggers,” but because they are following cultural and societal norms that men themselves have established, just like billions of women all over the world.

American women have their own money. They are able to take themselves out to nice restaurants, buy themselves gifts and flowers, and pamper themselves. Women are buying their own cars, homes, degrees, luxury items, stocks, and businesses. They do not need to “use” men who make around $45,000 a year (or less) to take them out to eat. The very suggestion is absurd.

A man who pretends that he left his wallet at home in order to manipulate a woman into paying for the date, to “test” her and make sure that she’s not a gold digger, reveals that he has poor character and an abusive mindset.

A man who tests women has failed his own test. The woman who got up from the table and walked away passed the test because she saw the red flag and didn’t fall for Red Pill manipulation.

Many women are going to get up and walk out on men who attempt to use this Red Pill tactic on dates. So, what do men get out of this?

A sense of power and control over a woman’s emotions.

Intentionally mistreating women is one way that some men exert control over a woman’s emotions, even if only by making her feel offended and upset. This is emotional abuse, by the way.

So, once again, what do Red Pill men get out of this, knowing that some women will cut them off and not talk to them anymore? Knowing that this behavior won’t lead to healthy relationships and happy stable marriages?

They derive pleasure from knowing that they can trigger a woman’s emotions and make her feel pain by disrespecting her. The idea of ruining a woman’s night and destroying her expectations of being courted in a normal manner energizes Red Pill men. They like doing the opposite of what women expect, and then framing the woman as the villain.

They also derive pleasure and a sense of power from playing the victim and telling undiscerning people that some “gold digging entitled” woman refused to pay for the date and walked out on them just because “they forgot their wallet” (which is a lie).

This is a strange way to exert dominance over women, and yet, this is what Red Pill men are being taught by grifters in the Manosphere.

If Red Pill men had wisdom, discernment, and integrity, they would not try to test women.

“Testing” people is what Satan does. “Testing” women literally and historically originates with him, and that is who Red Pill men are following.

Red Pill gurus are training millions of men to use Satanic tactics to “see” if a woman has good character and is ‘worthy’ of being mistreated, used, and abused by them.

They approach women just like the serpent approached Eve in the Garden. To deceive and manipulate. To see if he could trick her.

“The serpent was the shrewdest of all the wild animals the Lord God had made. One day he asked the woman, “Did God really say you must not eat the fruit from any of the trees in the garden?”

“Of course we may eat fruit from the trees in the garden,” the woman replied. “It’s only the fruit from the tree in the middle of the garden that we are not allowed to eat. God said, ‘You must not eat it or even touch it; if you do, you will die.’”

“You won’t die!” the serpent replied to the woman. “God knows that your eyes will be opened as soon as you eat it, and you will be like God, knowing both good and evil.” (Genesis 3:1-5)

Red Pill men are of their father the devil.

That is the spiritual influence that they are under, and they don’t realize it because they are blinded by their lust for sex, control, power, and dominance.

They are slithering around the dating scene like serpents seeking to ensnare women while the enemy has them ensnared and coils around their mind like a Boa Constrictor.

They seek to be the master of women, but Satan is their master.

He controls Red Pill men in the same manner that they wish they could control women.

Every day that they try to trick, deceive, and manipulate women, the devil is controlling and ruling over them.

They aren’t “alpha males.” They are conquered slaves of sin and in spiritual chains to the power of the devil.

That is what I see whenever I lay eyes on a man who uses “game.” I see a weak man who has shackles around his mind and cannot see God, himself, the value of a woman, or the value of a marriage and family built on obedience to Christ.

Satan not only tested the first woman, but he also tried to test Jesus Christ in the wilderness.

“For forty days and forty nights he (Christ) fasted and became very hungry. During that time, the devil came and said to him, “If you are the Son of God, tell these stones to become loaves of bread.” But Jesus told him, “No The Scriptures say, ‘People do not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.’” (Matthew 4:2-4)

Satan loves trying to test people so that he can entrap them and destroy them. That is who Red Pill men are driven by.

They aren’t “nice.”

They aren’t “good guys.”

They aren’t “different than most men.”

They aren’t exceptional.

They are children of the devil under the command and control of fallen angels, and that is why they would rather listen to Red Pill gurus who teach them “game” instead of listening to Christ teach them how to pick up their cross and deny themselves.

If you crucify your flesh and follow Christ, you can’t deceive, manipulate, control, dominate, and “test” women. All of these mind games and power-plays go out of the window.

You can’t be led by the Spirit of Christ and a fallen angel at the same time.

Pick one.

No one can serve two masters. You will either hate one and love the other.

Choose ye this day whom ye shall serve.

If you’re going to use “game” and “test” women like Satan did Eve in the Garden and tried to use on Christ in the wilderness, then keep serving Satan. Just don’t call yourself a Christian or a good guy, because you aren’t.

But if you want to serve Christ, then repent of using “game” and “testing” women, and learn how to be obedient to God and let Him conform you to the image of Christ.

In conclusion, the dating strategies employed by Red Pill men, such as pretending not to have money to pay for a date, reveal a troubling pattern of manipulation and deceit.

These strategies are not just about testing a woman’s character or intentions (which should not be done in the first place); they are rooted in a desire to control and diminish her self-worth.

By creating scenarios where women are pressured to pay for dates that men invite them to, such men aim to assert dominance and gauge a woman’s response to financial stress. However, such behavior ultimately undermines the foundation of trust and mutual respect that healthy relationships require.

Women should be aware of these red flags and feel empowered to set firm boundaries and walk away from situations where they feel manipulated or disrespected. It’s crucial to recognize that true connection and healthy relationships are built on honesty, authenticity, and equality, not on mind games and power plays.